In today’s blog you’ll learn the importance of quickly recognizing a guy’s “Agenda”. It’s one of the most important things you can do!
And if you ever wanted to know what makes some men run from commitment while others willingly embrace it, you’ll definitely find this helpful.
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Enjoy!
Much Love,
Joe
Contrary to popular belief a healthy relationship is very rarely 50/50.
In fact, In this video you will learn how expecting a relationship to be 50/50 is setting yourself up for disappointment.
You’ll also learn how to recognize when a guy isn’t carrying his weight in a relationship and you should move on.
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Much Love,
Joe
Hi,
If you’re a woman who invests a lot into a relationship but who often finds that the results of your efforts do not lead to the happy and fulfilling relationship you desire, you MUST watch this video.
You will learn that in most cases the hard work your investing is actually working against you and any chances you have of having a great relationship.
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Much Love,
Joe
I recently was asked to become a regular contributor for a website called Digital Romance. 
If you’ve ever wondered what goes thru a man’s mind and what it is that a guy needs to make him want to commit to a woman you must checked out this article.
You will learn that a lot of men aren’t afraid of commitment, they are afraid of committing to the wrong woman.
Check it out here…
http://digitalromanceinc.com/dating/2-things-a-guy-must-have-before-hell-commit-to-you/
Enjoy!
Much Love,
Joe
On Memorial Day I completed my first 5K race. Now that may not mean much to you, but for me it was HUGE!
Why? 
B/c for most of my life I have struggled with my weight. It had been (notice I say “HAD”) a constant battle of the bulge for over four decades until I finally discovered the real cause of weight issues after attending a Tony Robbins event last year.
And as a result of that one event I was able to lose almost 50 lbs.
So, why am I sharing this?
Because as I was running the race on Saturday, I had a flashback to the time I was in 6th grade. It was a cold dreary day, and we were outside for gym class. Now normally I liked gym b/c we got to play some kind of sport. And I loved playing sports. But this day was different. We were scheduled to do something I hated…run. Mr. Morris, the gym teacher had us down to so something I hated (and sucked at) to run the 600 yard dash. The event I had failed to finish several times before.
And on this day it was no different.
I was so out of breath and out of shape that I couldn’t make it around the set of orange cones that were used to mark the distance.
I was ashamed and embarrassed. And as a result of this one experience I got turned off to the process of running long distances.
I played a lot of sports throughout my life, but anytime it was required to run long distances I emotionally (and physically) checked out b/c I knew I wasn’t good at it.
And the one thing about us humans is that we’ll avoid things that we know we’re not good at (like dating and relationships, right?)
Well, after taking all of the weight off over the last year I made a promise to myself that I was going to conquer the 5K demon.
Since I knew I sucked at running I knew I needed some help. In discussing my challenge with my younger sister I learned about a national sneaker chain called, Fleet Feet Sports, which offered a beginner’s program. I quickly signed up and attended my first “run” which was made up of walking 3 mins and running one minute for a total of 1 mile.
The best thing about this program was that it laid out a smart, easy and doable program. And after 3 months of training I was ready for my first race.
When the race day came there was a part of me that wanted to stay home. What if I failed? What if I stopped (my goal was to run the whole race w/out stopping once)? I literally had to talk myself into doing it.
So, that morning Natalie and the boys hopped into the car and headed to the race.
And I ran.
I started out on a nice even pace and I hit the first mile at a lil over 12+ mins. And then I hit the second mile at approximately 25+ mins.
And then something strange started happening. Once I hit the 2/3 mark I knew in my head that I had won. I knew I was going to do it. There was no way I was going to stop.
And then all of a sudden I had a flashback to that moment in 6th grade. To the lil fat kid who was so out of shape that he couldn’t finish a race that was only as long as 2 football fields.
I was immediately overcome with emotion and I started to tear up. I could feel my eyes well up and all of a sudden I felt a tear as it slowly flowed down the side of my face. I soon realized that all of the emotional energy that I had tied into my weight and running was being released.
I simply let the process play out and within a minute I had composed myself and was back to running and focusing on the tunes that were blasting from my iPod.
And I crossed the finish line….without stopping!
When the race was I sat down and explained to Natalie what I had experienced. And I could see her getting “the look”.
What look? Well, you know the look you get after you’ve had a few drinks and you see the man that you are really attracted to?
Yes, that look!
Because the one thing I know about my wife is that she gets turned on when I open up and express my sensitive side.
Now I’m the first to admit that I’m not a touchy, feely kind of guy. In fact, I think why Natalie loves seeing this side of me is b/c most of the time I’m relatively even keeled. I don’t get too high and I don’t get too low.
But when I do open up and show her the softer, gentler side she just turns to mush. Which is ultimately good for me….Wink Wink!
And it made me think. How many times do we quickly label someone without ever taking the time to understand them.
I was in no means crying buckets at that moment in the race. But in those few seconds I was welling up, if someone was looking at me they would’ve known that I was emotional.
And B/c it’s not common to see a guy express his emotions, I wonder how many would’ve labeled me as being weak or a wimp?
What would you have thought?
Question: Do you think a sensitive guy is attractive or a wimp? Please explain why? Post Your comments below.
I recently had a conversation with a woman who said, “My problem is I just care too much?” 
I must admit it wasn’t the first time I heard this statement? Instead of judging her and making her wrong I simply asked, “How can you care too much?”
I’m gonna be honest. I don’t think a human being can care too much, especially in their intimate relationships. In fact, I’ve been in relationships where the person I was with didn’t give a sh*t about anything other than herself and I’ve been in a relationship with a woman who has a HUGE heart for the last 13 years. And the the difference between the two is the difference between lightening and a lightening bug!
So, I’m just gonna come out and say it…you can not care too much for someone. There is no such thing, it’s bullsh*t!
And if you think you can I want you to take a good look in the mirror because you are confusing caring with the feeling that you are the one who is responsible for making a relationship work.
If you were to look real close you will see that there is a part of you that believes it is your responsibility to make the other person happy. And unfortunately that is just too heavy a burden to carry.
Why? Because it’s impossible! You can not make a person happy!
Yes, you can make a person happier but the onus for a person’s happiness must come from within that person.
You can sacrifice your own happiness, you can watch The Secret from the moment you get up to the moment you go to bed and you can hug a tree and sing Kumbaya all you want but YOU WILL NEVER MAKE SOMEONE ELSE HAPPY.
Feeling that you and you alone are responsible for a partner’s happiness is like saying you don’t need food, water or air?
it might be true for a few minutes but living that way will cause some serious consequences.
In a relationship there are certain things you MUST have. Just like you need food, water and air to survive there are certain qualities and characteristics you must have from your mate.
And if you don’t get these needs met your relationship (and your happiness) will ultimately die!
I’ve decided to list the top 3 ways you may know that caring too much is simply your desire to please someone else at the expense of your own happiness
1) You are in a relationship where you consistently give but don’t get your needs met
2) You are afraid to be honest because you are afraid the person will get upset or leave
3) You feel that if you don’t sacrifice the relationship won’t last.
If you look closely at all 3 of these reasons you will see that underneath the surface of each one is some kind of fear.
And a relationship held together by fear will never last.
Question: Do you have a history of caring too much? if so, which of the above scenarios best describes you? Post your comment below
Men….ugggh! We’re confusing creatures aren’t we?
Well, having lived my life as a member of the male species for a lil over 4 decades now I must confess that we’re not as complicated as you women think we are.
In fact, in today’s video you will learn 3 strategies which will give you some insight into understanding if a guy you are interested in is worth pursuing
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Question: What confuses you the most about Men? Post your comment below.
Much Love,
Joe
Are there some guys who are selfish, immature and emotionally unavailable?
Absolutely! 
But realize this…labeling a whole gender for the actions and behaviors of some guys is stupid and detrimental to your pursuit of love.
Look, I get it.
There are lots of guys out there who only care about one thing…themselves. And if you’re familiar with me and my message you know that I refer to these guys as “boys”.
Why “boys”?
Because that’s exactly how these guys act. It makes no difference what their chronological age is because these socially stunted guys have never gone through emotional puberty.
I highly recommend you avoid these guys!
No matter how good looking these guys are, no matter how good your ego feels when one of them pursues you and no matter how good you feel the chemistry is between you a relationship with a boy will never lead to the happy and fulfilling relationship you desire.
Instead of investing your emotions on a boy look for a MAN instead. Contrary to popular belief, they’re out there! And you know what? They’re just as frustrated as you are in trying to find that special person to share their life with.
You see, one of the biggest myths about men is that they don’t want the same things you do. And it’s just not true.
Yes, these guys may not have the perfect hair or chiseled chest that you fantasize about, but these guys have no problem committing to the right woman. And like you these guys aren’t in to playing games.
Before you go on your next date or enter into your next relationship I want you take a lil mirror time and look at your history in the men you choose to get involved with.
And if you see that you have a history of dating boys and not MEN I suggest you reconsider your selection criteria.
Because 6 months down the road if you find yourself involved with another boy, it won’t be his fault….it’ll be yours!
Have you ever wished you could understand why some guys do what they do?
Well, in today’s video you will get a glimpse of what goes on in a guy’s mind when out of nowhere he calls his “ex”.
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Hope this helps!
Much Love,
joe
In today’s post you will learn the #1 thing which is preventing most single women from having the type of intimacy they are longing for.
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Enjoy!
Much Love,
Joe
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