For many women the idea of dating multiple men is a form of cheating. But I believe those women who date multiple men are in better position to make healthier and smarter choices and as a result they increase their chances of having better and healthier relationships.
To find out why dating more than one guy is a good idea
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And remember…there is a HUGE difference between dating a guy and being in a relationship with him!
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Much Love,
Joe
Chris,
anytime we are experiencing a result in our life that we don’t want it is due to 1 of the following reasons
1) You are unknowingly doing something you shouldn’t be doing
2) You are unknowingly not doing something you should be doing
3) You’re doing things right, it’s just not the right time
That being said if you see a “pattern” of negative results (no men at all to date, attracting the wrong men, being attracted to the wrong men, etc) in my experience it’s usually #’s 1 &2
Hope this helps!
Much Love,
Joe
Your advice makes sense, but I haven’t been able to get a date with one guy much less with multiple ones at the same time!!
This is utterly true! It is easier on the heart to not focus so much on one man until you know that he is the man you actually want to focus on, and that he returns that focus.
May I ask how you think the majority of men feel about women dating multiple men? I notice on a lot of online profiles men will say they do not want someone who is a serial dater etc. I would expect a man to continue dating until he knows who he actually wants a relationship with, yet it seems many men feel we women should stop right in the moment without really knowing them.
And how do you tell them you are dating? I usually say just that if asked. Somehow it implies something else even with the explanation of dating, not sex.
Thanks for all the great advice.
Monika
Bring on the dates!
I’m excited.
I have adopted this dating method and it’s great. I lucked out and met a new guy that I’m slowly getting to know, a guy that I had seen briefly in the past that came back to me because he realized he really missed me and wanted to try again and the third is someone who I have been off and on dating for a few months. He is very slow moving and while I like him ,I found when I was just seeing him I started expecting more from him because I did the typical wanting things to move faster. Now my mentality has totally changed. I enjoy the variation of personalities, activities and feel less anxiety. I don’t feel guilty, it’s a little hectic setting up a schedule at times but well worth it.. I don’t tell them about each other as, ego’s will fly. It does wonders for one’s self assurance and I think they seem more interested in you because you don’t pressure them and it peeks their interest in you even more. I one day would like to find that special one but this is wonderful for now.